What you experience is selected consciously or unconsciously through what you believe to be true.
If you think you are at risk on the road, will continuously manifest facts verify that your phobia.
If you believe you are worthy of happiness, then you turn situations will earn you real.
That is why two or more persons in the same theoretical world, experiencing completely different experiences.
Since we can choose to experience that you want, select the situations and events that make you happy as what is done.
All we need from you is to feel true and operate respectively.