erotic restraint. It was said that the child's mouth was made
to apply his mouth to the nipple of the woman's breast.
Elegen the saint, there is a hydraulic application. We remember the word
hydraulic application. His mouth is made in such a way that it does not allow
a trace of air to enter while the child is breastfeeding so that germs do not enter. Not
only material germs but also spiritual germs. Then the mother says alone
with the child and closes the door. Nobody can see you. You wear the clear
syrup. You pray. You cross the child and yourself,
you and the baby. Great moment emotion
awe. The milk passes from one body to the other body of the child. No contact with
germs, no bottle caps, no hassle. The natural way.
In this contact, the child's physical and mental needs are met
. These moments, listen to him, define
adolescence. The moments of the secret education of children. Now
all the needs of the infant are being treated. You change him, bathe him,
nurse him, put him in his crib and hear something you won't like.
No hugs, no kisses,
no petting the very very young children. Why does the child say that when they are
three, four years old they are the receiver of all our desires and those desires
that we do not manifest, but are dispersed in a mysterious way in
children. If we lack and our husband does not hug us
, does not protect us much, does not caress us much, well, there is no need to
blame it on our child. and see it as a substitute. Because
that's how it happens many times. The failed relationship of the couple
is collected by the child and the mother becomes overprotective.
The father becomes egocentric and closed to himself. And then what
happens when we start the many hugs, the many kisses, the many caresses
and in the meantime today every psychiatrist is also a saint. It is also a
recipe. What about creating squishy, sloppy, spoiled, insecure
children. You don't even let someone else hug them. He transmits his own to him and
usually the negatives stick. You will tell me now the child doesn't want a caress, the child doesn't want
a kiss, the child doesn't want a hug. This is where
the adults want it. Well, listen to the saint,
he says these things, but secretly, secretly you long for it, caress it
and mentally keep it in the little head. Mentally. That is, it is a relationship, the mental relationship
that we have not taught people. I mean, I have a problem with
Father Kyprinos.
I bring it to my memory where I am in Evrychou and let him be the
dawn. And I literally hug him
and I literally hug him and I say to him my father I forgive you for what
you said to me. Forgive me and you forgive me. Christ in our midst and I bring to
mind the face of my Christ and place it between us so that he may unite us.
This was the way of Saint Porphyry. This was the way of Elder
James. This was the way of Saint Paisios. They lived a mental
energy where God permeated all relationships.
Praise is harmful to children. Whoever praises us misleads us and
spoils the paths of our lives. How wise are the words of God. Praise
does not prepare children for any difficulties in children and they come out
maladjusted and lose them and ultimately from what they lose. The little child is
always praised. Don't argue, don't oppose him, don't push
the child. But he is learning and so he cannot react correctly even to the smallest
difficulty. As soon as someone opposes him, he is crushed. He has no strength.
Parents are the first to blame for children's failure in life and
teachers and professors then praise them all the time. They say selfish
words. They do not bring them into the spirit of God. They alienate them from the church.
Children with constant pains are not built up. They become selfish and
arrogant. They will want all their lives to be constantly praised by everyone, even
if they are also lied to. Children, when you constantly praise them indiscriminately
, they are tempted by the opposite, temptation. They are fueled by
selfishness and used to small praises from parents and teachers.
maybe the letters are progressing. But what is the benefit
in life selfish people and not Christians.
Selfish people can never be Christians. Our religion does not want
children to learn etiquette. On the contrary, he wants children to
learn the truth from a young age. In other words, the saint puts the truth in the place of the lawsuit.
Know the truth and let the truth set us free.
The truth of Christ emphasizes that if you praise a person, you make him
selfish. The selfish is confused, the one
driven by the devil and the evil spirit. You must tell the
truth. Let the man learn it. Otherwise you support him in his ignorance.
When you tell the other person the truth, he becomes aware, he pays attention, he listens to
others, he restrains himself. Likewise, tell the child the truth.
You will argue with him so that he realizes that what he is doing is not good. We should never
praise our fellow men and flatter them,
but lead them to humility and to the love of God. And neither should
we seek
to be loved by telling others. To learn to love and
not to ask to be loved. To love all brothers in Christ
selflessly without expecting praise and love
from them. This is how school children should be led. This is the
truth. Otherwise they become unadaptable. So when we
create this super-ego in the child with the hardships, we inflate his ego,
we do him great harm, we make him become more decent in devilish
things. This is what the devil managed to do. He made the earth a labyrinth so that
we could not get along with each other. What is it that we suffered and did not
understand. You see how we have gone astray. We have exhausted our land and our era
of proper psychiatrists and we do not understand
what is wrong with us.
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